Twelve Wedding Rules for the Bride…

Top 12 wedding rules for the bride

The moment the newly-wed bride steps into her new home, it marks the beginning of several small and big relationships instantly. Observing some simple wedding rules can help build great and ever lasting relationships in the new home after marriage…

 

 

  1. Drop any pre-conceived notions you have about weddings, especially all that you’ve seen in saas-bahu serials, and go to the new home with an open mind and a positive outlook.
  2. Have a desire to build good healthy relationships and feeling of affection with other family members.
  3. A smiling and pleasant personality melts even the hardest of the stones. So always keep smiling and be yourself.
  4. Don’t hesitate to ask for help from other family members and also in helping others.
  5. Don’t be over possessive of your spouse, respect the fact that he has been with other family members for a very long time and they have a right over him too!
  6. Don’t let your family interfere too much in your affairs, it can complicate matters unnecessarily.
  7. Adjustments are a part of anything new and even new relationships, so learn to forgive and forget.
  8. Remember, building new relationships is not a magic wand, it takes time to build and nurture them.
  9. Don’t go overboard with gifts, they are very temporary possessions and bring short- lived happiness. At the end of the day it is good behavior, which matters.
  10. Don’t be impulsive, be patient, everyone will come around and have a positive orientation towards you.
  11. Never sacrifice your career for being a good wife and a daughter-in-law. Remember, economic independence is the most important tool of women empowerment, but don’t be aggressive, diplomatically explain why your job is important to you. Be firm about it.
  12. Remember what you give to others will determine what you get back from them!

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